The clients that work well with my style of therapy are:
- motivated and committed not only to the end goal but also to the process
- work hard and make every session count
- honest and open and don’t let shame stop the work
- take time to reflect and develop their insight 
- not afraid to disarm their defences to see what’s underneath 
- work with me to build mutuality in respect and trust
- able to call out what’s not working and are open to repair
- brave so they can turn towards what once was uncomfortable and painful so they can grow